Tag: Bully

Thank Goodness I Was Bullied! DTH Episode 152 with Madonna Hanna

๐“๐ก๐š๐ง๐ค ๐†๐จ๐จ๐๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ˆ ๐–๐š๐ฌ ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐!
Many may be struck by this statement, some may even find it a bit offensive. That I can understand, because when I first read it, I was a bit struck too. Those who have been bullied may even find the statement a bit hurtful and that is by no means the intention. Regular listeners to the DTH podcast know that I speak often of the lessons of my life, and this is definitely one of those times. Both my guest, Madonna Hanna, and I speak on this topic with passion and vulnerability from a position of personal experience. It is my great honor to have met, and share with all of you, this conversation my new friend Madonna Hanna because of her statement, “Thank goodness I was bullied!”
๐–๐ก๐จ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐Œ๐š๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐š ๐. ๐‡๐š๐ง๐ง๐š?
Madonna was born on the Pensacola Naval Base and was raised in the conservative white suburbs of Boston, Massachusetts during the 60s and 70s. She was the only African-American student in her elementary school class. Her parents overcame incredible obstacles of discrimination to provide their family with the American dream of a suburban middle-class lifestyle.
Despite her creativity and talent, Madonna faced bullying, racial prejudice, and isolation at school due to the color of her skin. At that time, many white parents would not allow their children to play with her, which is why she only had a few friends.
The pain, loneliness, and injustice Madonna experienced could have destroyed her. But reflecting on it now, she recognizes that these adversities taught her how to meet future challenges with determination. It also informed her decision to always treat others with respect and compassion.
๐‡๐ž๐š๐ซ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐Œ๐š๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐š’๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐ž๐ฉ๐ข๐ฌ๐จ๐๐ž ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ ๐š๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฐ.๐ƒ๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ž๐“๐ก๐ž๐‡๐š๐ญ๐ž.๐œ๐จ๐ฆ

Episode 74: Ideas That Get Your “of color” Card Revoked… with Angel Eduardo

Have you ever had a conversation with someone and came away thinking, if the world had more thinkers such as this, the world would be a much calmer and better place for everyone? The deep thinker Iโ€™m talking about is Angel Eduardo and Iโ€™m grateful this week for having the opportunity to speak with Angel on the Derate the Hate podcast.

I recently read a piece by Angel published in Newsweek, โ€œStop calling me โ€œwhiteโ€ for having the wrong opinionsโ€, which stood out to me as something that seems to happen with much greater frequency these days. It seems if people of color donโ€™t have the โ€œcorrectโ€ ideas or opinions, they are said to be โ€œacting whiteโ€ or called โ€œwhiteโ€ as a pejorative. This is not only a disgusting form of racism and bullying, but itโ€™s a nonsensical attempt by some to keep us divided. Angel has more than a little to say about this so youโ€™re not going to want to miss this conversation!

Episode 17: Keyboard Warriors

Welcome back my friends, Wilk here from Wilksworld.com and in episode 17 I am discussing the sadness that is the way that some people are treating others in and on social media sites.
We all know the kind, those #KeyboardWarriors that we all know about, those that say the most vile and savage things to people they know they will never meet. It is my opinion that most of these members of what I call the Basement Dwelling Bedwetter Brigade are unfortunately unable, or have traditionally in most cases been those that were likely picked on and bullied most of their lives and were never really able to stick up for or never had the courage to stand up for themselves.
The dumpster fire known as social media has given these #keyboardwarriors a forum to take their swing, get a punch in because they’ve never been able to do it in real life and what better time to do it than when your “opponent” is someone who you’ll never have to really interact with in real life, right? These folks are in fact hurting and miserable people that want everyone else to be as miserable as they are, so what do hurt people do, they hurt people.
In this weeks feel good story I talk about a gentleman out of Alabama by the name of Rodney Smith that started a movement called the 50 Yard Challenge where he inspires and encourages youngsters from ages 7 to 17 to go out and mow 50 lawns for free as part of this challenge. Rodney has inspired upwards of 1000 young people to start this challenge and he has personally traveled to around 25 states to give those who have completed the challenge a special gift. This is a special man making special things happen, way to go Rodney! (Read more here)
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