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How do we cultivate purpose in a world full of noise? What does it mean to live a meaningful life rooted in empathy and civic engagement?
In this inspiring episode, Wilk Wilkinson sits down with Neil Ghosh, author of Do More Good and a global leader with over three decades of experience impacting vulnerable communities across 50+ countries. Together, they explore the intersections of personal growth, democracy, the immigrant experience, and the legacy we leave for future generations.
Neil shares how purpose is not reserved for the young or idealistic—it’s for all of us, and often found in quiet moments rather than loud declarations. He discusses the crucial role of empathy in bridging divides and reminds us that disagreement can be a creative force—not a wedge. Most importantly, he emphasizes that active, engaged citizenship is not a choice; it’s a responsibility.
🎙️ Notable quotes:
“Empathy is not a blue state value, or a red state value, it's an American value.”
“Disagreement creates innovation.”
“We have to reach out to them.”
✅ How purpose reveals itself throughout life
✅ Why Gen Z wants to talk politics at work—and how leaders can respond
✅ The power of micro-altruism in the workplace and beyond
✅ How to teach kids to recognize and reject hate
✅ Why civic engagement is the foundation of a healthy democracy
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Wilk Wilkinson
Today I'm sitting down with Neil Ghosh, a guy who's not just talking about change. He's out there building it. His work connects purpose, empathy and civic renewal in a way that hits right at the heart of what we're trying to do here. Psychologist Daryl Cameron nailed it when he said, if we let ourselves become callous to others needs, we risk losing
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Wilk Wilkinson
sight of democracy and the importance of treating each other with dignity.
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Wilk Wilkinson
That's not just food for thought, my friends. That is a wakeup call. Neil story shows us that real purpose and real empathy are not just fluff. They're foundational.
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Neil Ghosh
So I think we kind of acknowledge the fear and the unknown part. I know I talked a lot about it because this is something coming from another country. I feel responsible that I have a duty here to to cross that bridge. So that's acknowledgment. Part of the fear and the unknown part. And then the other three, I talk about the responsibility part, which you asked me.
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Neil Ghosh
What is your role? What is my role in this whole whole thing? So I think part of the role is absolutely is what you're doing and what we are trying to have this conversation. Having this conversation everywhere possible at a local level, at a church, at a synagogue, at a mosque, at a at a temple, at a fire station, at a sports bar, whatever.
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Neil Ghosh
And the third point I will make that part was not to scream at you. I think it whispers. And so what I have learned in my journey, that sometimes you have to kind of tune out the noise to listen to your purpose. Nice. And everybody have a different way of doing it Wilk. And one of the things I keep harping on disagreement is healthy.
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Neil Ghosh
That's right. Disagreement creates innovation. That's right. People are so afraid of disagreement. And I think I somehow I'm trying to,
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Neil Ghosh
bravery,
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Neil Ghosh
like repeat as many times I can. It was 2016. I wrote an essay called what is the Secret of America's Success? 2016 is a long, not long ago, but sometimes long ago, and a Pew Research went out.
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Neil Ghosh
Many Americans asked, what is the secret of American success? And people said,
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Neil Ghosh
vation hard work, moral courage. All are true. I wrote an essay arguing these are all true, but it's also empathy, which is running in the DNA of America. And I give it a lot of data to support my thesis. And one of the things I repeat these days, every opportunity I get that empathy is not a blue state value or a red state value.
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Neil Ghosh
It's an American value. We have to accept that at at the base of our conversation. And that brings back to your conversation on engaged citizenship. Democracy requires patience, perseverance, and with capital P participation.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Welcome back, my friends, for the Derate the Hate podcast. I'm your host, Wilk Wilkinson, your blue collar sage calming outrage and helping to navigate a world divided by fog. And those who would spread that fear, outrage and grievance. The D Rate the Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels, America's largest grassroots cross Partizan organization working towards civic renewal.
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Wilk Wilkinson
This podcast amplifies the mission that we share to foster a more respectful and united America where civic friendship thrives even when we disagree. Each week, through the power of story, conversation, and connection with incredible guests, we work to build bridges instead of barriers, not to change minds on the issues, but to change how we see one another when we differ.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Because friends, it really is about bettering the world one attitude at a time. We did not create the hate, but together we can Derate the Hate. So be sure to subscribe wherever you get your podcast. Share it with a friend and visit Braver angels.org to learn how you can get involved in the movement to bridge the partizan divide.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Friends, I am so incredibly grateful that you have joined me for another powerful Derate the Hate episode. So let's get to it.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Neil Ghosh is a seasoned executive, social impact strategist and author of Do More Good. With over 30 years of experience across the nonprofit, government, philanthropic and private sectors, Neil has helped launch and scale initiatives that have impacted lives in more than 50 countries. In this heartfelt and thought provoking conversation, Neil shares how purpose often whispers instead of screams, and how tuning out the noise of our everyday lives can help us find that whisper.
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Wilk Wilkinson
We dig into what engaged citizenship looks like, especially for immigrants, contributing to the fabric of their new communities, and why teaching our children to reject hate isn't optional. It's a legacy. We also explore the radical power of empathy, the beauty of disagreement as a tool for innovation, and how business leaders can build cultures that reward micro altruism and authentic civic engagement.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Whether you're a parent, a leader, or just someone searching for a deeper meaning and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and practical insight. Let's get into it with my friend Neil Ghosh. Here we go!
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Wilk Wilkinson
Neil Ghosh, thank you for joining me on the Derate the Hate podcast. It is great to see you today. Man.
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Neil Ghosh
Great to see you.
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Neil Ghosh
I heard about your show, so I'm glad to be here.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Yeah. And I'm glad you are here because, well, originally,
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Wilk Wilkinson
the reason that that I asked you to join me was,
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Wilk Wilkinson
was there was a press release
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Wilk Wilkinson
for the book that you have out called Do More Good Inspiring Lessons from Extraordinary People. And,
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Wilk Wilkinson
I started looking into that book, Neil.
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Wilk Wilkinson
And and there there's definitely a lot of inspiration in there. And,
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Wilk Wilkinson
where I'd like to start our conversation today. And I know we've got a number of things that we're going to talk about, but one of the first things I want to ask you, because this is what stood out to me and this is, is Neil, what does a,
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Wilk Wilkinson
purpose filled, meaningful life mean to you, Neil?
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Wilk Wilkinson
Gosh.
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Neil Ghosh
Right.
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Neil Ghosh
I will answer it, but I will take a little detour.
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Neil Ghosh
Just to give you a make a point here. If someone saw both of us. Wilk Wilkinson, Neil Ghosh walking down the street, they will see a lot of difference. They will see a white guy. They will see a brown guy. If they do a little bit more.
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Neil Ghosh
Google your your your
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Neil Ghosh
about you. They will find on your website. You are a steadfast Christian conservative. They will Google me. Maybe they might find that I was born in a Hindu family, just like a lot of your cabinet members and former presidential candidate. If they dig farther, they will find out that,
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Neil Ghosh
you were born in the United States and,
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Neil Ghosh
generations.
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Neil Ghosh
And I was not I am a citizen, but I'm a naturalized citizen, and I'm giving you a long answer to make a point. I think the point is that in spite of the differences, I guarantee we both love our country. I guarantee we both love our families. I guarantee that we love our neighbors and we we both treasure the independence and that we have in this country.
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Neil Ghosh
Right. And so I think one of my one of the things I talk about whenever I talk about purpose is
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Neil Ghosh
unity does not mean uniformity. It's about having a common purpose. So that's the reason I kind of give you a very long answer to your question of purpose. Right. And purpose can vary. Purpose can vary.
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Neil Ghosh
That's right. So that's my my my most favorite answer to a purposeful set. I would say one more thing though,
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Neil Ghosh
that,
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Neil Ghosh
there's a lot of,
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Neil Ghosh
a lot of people think purpose only happens to when you get older, when you're mature,
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Neil Ghosh
when you have a lot of everything is all taken care off, you kind of go into soul searching.
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Neil Ghosh
And I totally reject that. I was very young, very young, and from a very I will not call it dirt poor, but we didn't have much. And it's,
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Neil Ghosh
I talked a lot about in the book,
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Neil Ghosh
my home
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Neil Ghosh
there was a not a lot of resources, but there was no lack of empathy.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Okay.
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Neil Ghosh
But I had thought about purpose at a very young age. So it is not an age related conversation or even a wealth related conversation. So that's another point to make. And the third point I will make that, purpose doesn't scream at you, I think. I think it's whispers. And so what I have learned in my journey that sometimes you have to kind of tune out the noise to listen to your purpose, and everybody have a different way of doing it.
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Neil Ghosh
Will race. I think that's my,
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Neil Ghosh
that's my thought on the on the issue of purpose.
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Wilk Wilkinson
I love that I absolutely love that purpose, does not scream, it whisperers. And sometimes you gotta tune out the noise.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Neil, that is the. I love your answer,
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Wilk Wilkinson
So I know you said it was a long answer, but worth every single second of it. Because this,
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Wilk Wilkinson
this is such a great way to to start off this conversation.
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Wilk Wilkinson
And,
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Wilk Wilkinson
I, I when I started looking at the book. Right, do more good and, and started looking at,
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Wilk Wilkinson
these different conversations and the different ways that these different people,
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Wilk Wilkinson
whether they be different figures in history or just just different, influential and extraordinary people have affected your life. I, I was I thought to myself,
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Wilk Wilkinson
how have different people,
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Wilk Wilkinson
that I've encountered in my life or different people that I've read about in my life or, or different things that I've done in my life influenced me to now be somebody who.
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Wilk Wilkinson
And I make no bones about it, Neil. I'm not somebody that who has has saw my purpose as a young, young man and and wanted to do good. I mean, I never really wanted to do bad, but I never found,
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Wilk Wilkinson
enough there or to really want to do good. And I and I was just getting by as somebody who was just trying to get by to get by, and instead of actually trying to make a difference and do good in the world.
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Wilk Wilkinson
But as I was looking through your book, Neil, and and saw
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Wilk Wilkinson
some of the conversations you've had or, or read about ways that certain people have influenced you or really,
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Wilk Wilkinson
it really stood out to me,
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Wilk Wilkinson
in my own life experience, how I had to,
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Wilk Wilkinson
and I hadn't thought of it that way about,
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Wilk Wilkinson
purpose doesn't always scream.
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Wilk Wilkinson
It whispers, and you gotta tune out the noise a lot of times, people, and I'll have you expand on this. A lot of times, people have that don't have the ability to or have not figured out a way to tune out the noise so they themselves can hear the whispers of their own purpose. So talk about how maybe how that worked for you, or how you've seen that work for other people, because tuning out the noise is often easier said than done.
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Neil Ghosh
It is.
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Neil Ghosh
I'll give you a little longer answer, but then again, I will start with something you said. The last comment.
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Neil Ghosh
you and I have to make a decision. Everybody listening to you will have to make a decision. Do I want to live a reactive life or a proactive life? And what happened in most of the time?
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Neil Ghosh
Not anybody's fault. But the moment I get up,
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Neil Ghosh
we are. We are living in a world of division, disruption. And sometimes I call it digital overload. Right? It's so much noise. And yeah, so Alice and I have to make a conscious decision that I will not be living a reactive life, because if I do, I'm just constantly worried I'll,
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Neil Ghosh
I'm worn out.
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Neil Ghosh
Also, I don't have energy left because I'm always reacting to whatever I'm reacting to. So I think that maybe a conscious decision, irrespective of who you are, what are you trying to achieve in life? I find it very important to think through that comment that I want to have a proactive life, whatever life you want to live. So that's number one.
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Neil Ghosh
I think a little bit more on a macro level.
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Neil Ghosh
coming back to
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Neil Ghosh
your broader question, the three pillars of this book are empathy, purpose and action. Right? I deliberately talk about these three pillars in a more detailed way, but let me frame the particular question you asked me that how do we how do we do it?
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Neil Ghosh
And when I when I think about this, I kind of think about
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Neil Ghosh
as we are in this country now and
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Neil Ghosh
what's driving me? And for full disclosure, well, two months ago, I became a life member of Braver Angels. Yeah. So I just found out that you are part of it. So I'm just sharing with you because.
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Neil Ghosh
So
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Neil Ghosh
what's driving me? It's it's it's it's pains me to see some of this stuff. This is not the country I came. That's right. So it deeply pains me. I was 22 years old. I was very conscious of not a child. So it pains me where we are. And I have made it a point that I will do everything in my ability to, as a citizen, as an engaged citizen, to do something about it.
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Neil Ghosh
So let me tell you the framework I'm talking about. So I see this under the three things. There are four buckets, if I may. The first one Wilk, I call it acknowledgment and let me explain. What do I mean by acknowledgment? I think and I have traveled a lot, not just internationally but within the country. And I can tell you stories after stories.
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Neil Ghosh
Happened to me in, in,
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Neil Ghosh
in Wyoming, in,
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Neil Ghosh
Louisville, Kentucky, where people have been so kind to me, that is unbelievable. And it also happened people through exactly.
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Neil Ghosh
In, in another state. So I have to make a decision what story I want to share with Will. And what story? I want to be part of my my DNA.
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Neil Ghosh
So let me talk about the acknowledgment part. Technology part. What I say is a lot of people in this country are hurting. That's right. And are afraid. And,
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Neil Ghosh
they are concerned about their kids. Their grandkids are concerned about their retirement. And it's more than economic. They are also afraid of the culture that they grew up with. I'll give you one story to make a point.
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Neil Ghosh
It was 2016. I was reading a Washington Post,
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Neil Ghosh
news report. This was a time when president that, candidate Trump was in a rally and the journalist was there,
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Neil Ghosh
asking just people who went to the rally,
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Neil Ghosh
why are you here? And I will never forget, I'm paraphrasing Will, because I don't remember exactly the sentence, but I remember the story.
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Neil Ghosh
And this lady, there was a couple elderly couple and,
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Neil Ghosh
asked the journalist, why are you here? And the lady said something along the line. She said that we have been buying bread from this,
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Neil Ghosh
bakery for the long, all my life. And I go there now and they don't speak English now. The story hit me really hard because it's very easy to judge this person.
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Neil Ghosh
But I did not judge this person because for me, I saw this person who was just simply afraid of the unknown. So I think we kind of acknowledge the fear and the unknown part. I know I stopped a lot about it because this is something coming from another country. I feel responsible that I have a duty here to to cross that bridge.
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Neil Ghosh
So that's the acknowledgment part of the fear and the unknown part. And then the other three. I talk about the responsibility part, which you asked me, what is your role? What is my role right in this whole whole thing. So I think one of the role is absolutely is what you're doing and what we are trying to have this conversation, having this conversation everywhere possible at a local level, at a church, at a synagogue, at a mosque, at a at a temple, at a fire station, at a sports bar, whatever.
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Neil Ghosh
Yeah. And one of the things I keep harping on disagreement is healthy. Let's try this again and create innovation. That's right. People are so afraid of disagreement. And I think I'm somehow I'm trying to,
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Neil Ghosh
like repeat as many times I can. It's okay to have disagreement but have this conversation. So that's number one. Number two, I talk a lot about how do we teach our kids because they're very vulnerable to reject hate.
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Neil Ghosh
That's right. And you and I can talk have another conversation. I met a former,
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Neil Ghosh
white supremacist. I met,
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Neil Ghosh
the mother of Heather, the lady who was killed in Charlottesville. I,
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Neil Ghosh
for one of my article. Okay. And I asked him, how do you teach our kids to reject hate? And I learned something from them. So, again, the second thing I'm saying, we have to teach our kids to reject hate.
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Neil Ghosh
And number three, I said that we have to come out of our comfort zone. What is the comfort zone we have and meet people that don't look like us. And I started the conversation about us that we look different and we have different faith. Maybe. But I can guarantee if there's a purpose you and I agree on, I think you and I can be the best partner, possibly anybody can imagine because we have a common purpose, right?
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Wilk Wilkinson
For sure. Yes.
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Neil Ghosh
And the third bucket, and this may be a deliberately I'm doing because I am part of the bucket is what is the role of an immigrant. And this is a very I will call it if people don't want to talk about it. It's a sensitive topic. But I decided after a long time that I must talk about it.
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Neil Ghosh
it means that this and Damien's me, us. We have what it is that we have to learn the language. I have to engage in the community. I have to follow the local norms and regulation. Doesn't mean I'm not sacrificing my,
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Neil Ghosh
culture or whatever I learn. But when I'm. I came here a deliberate move for my side to come to United States.
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Neil Ghosh
So I have a responsibility to follow the
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Neil Ghosh
norms and regulations, to participate, to engage with you and come out of my little community, get to know other people. So I have a list of things that I talk about in many of my articles. So there is a deliberate responsibility for immigrants. And of course, the last one I'm not going to ignore it.
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Neil Ghosh
Is the government right? Of course, they ultimately make policies, and I of course hope that,
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Neil Ghosh
they make policies that are sustainable, that inclusive, that are compassionate. And we as a citizen have,
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Neil Ghosh
complete right to vote people and vote people out.
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Neil Ghosh
That's what. So I kind of framework in that way so that we are an engage. I call them engaged citizens.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Engaged citizens. Yeah. I talk a lot about engaged citizenship. And you said a lot there, Neal, that that,
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Wilk Wilkinson
that we can unpack. I mean, we can certainly,
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Wilk Wilkinson
we we probably don't have enough time to unpack everything in one conversation today, but I think you make some. But I don't think I know you make some incredible points here.
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Wilk Wilkinson
And and,
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Wilk Wilkinson
thank you for sharing.
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Wilk Wilkinson
First of all, the, the the idea that you, you've you've traveled all over, not only around the world, but around this country and and just met some incredible people. And, and I think it is really important.
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Wilk Wilkinson
let's just stick for, for a second. Just stick to the, the first two there because,
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Wilk Wilkinson
obviously,
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Wilk Wilkinson
assimilating as an immigrant, as an immigrant that's come to this country hugely important, becoming an engaged citizen and understanding our government, how it works, how you can be involved, how you can be part of the solution, hugely important.
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Wilk Wilkinson
But let's focus on the fear part and,
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Wilk Wilkinson
the fear and acknowledging the fear, the empathy that comes along with that. And then also the,
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Wilk Wilkinson
the, the part where we have to reject hate because, I think, I think the to go so hand in hand, they, they do from, from so many of the conversations that I've had,
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Wilk Wilkinson
whether it be with my work at Braver Angels, my work with the Pro Human Foundation, my conversations with former white supremacists and and and and race relations superheroes like Daryl Davis.
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Wilk Wilkinson
I mean, the reality is, Neil and and you you hit the nail on the head is a lot of times people do not understand that a lot of what is said and, and, and maybe said is not the best way and then taken by others in the wrong way. But a lot of that stems in, in fear people,
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Wilk Wilkinson
people, especially when it comes to the immigration topic.
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Wilk Wilkinson
Right. And we hear people,
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Wilk Wilkinson
maybe a Trump rally or some kind of a,
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Wilk Wilkinson
a situation where, where,
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Wilk Wilkinson
where just like, just like the situation where you were talking about where where the person says, hey, the bakery that I was going to for so long for such a big part of my life. Now I go to that bakery, and the people there don't even speak English,
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Wilk Wilkinson
Is it a statement or is it a is it a statement of fear?
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Wilk Wilkinson
Is it I mean, what what all is that is there's something more there that that we would need to dig into. But the rejection of hate has to, has to be instilled in, in everybody. I don't care what color you are, where you come from, what your cultural sensibilities are and how those relate to other people, the rejection of hate is got to be the most important thing, and I think, as my friend Daryl Davis says, a lot of that hate is the result of fear.
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Wilk Wilkinson
People fear that which they don't understand. But,
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Wilk Wilkinson
when we think about or when I think about,
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Wilk Wilkinson
people on my side of the political spectrum,
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Wilk Wilkinson
I like I said, I'm a Christian conservative. And a lot of times conservatives in general get a very bad rap because they're seen as anti-immigrant or anti-immigrant, which I don't believe at all.
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Wilk Wilkinson
That has not been my experience. But but when when we think about that or how they are portrayed in the media by certain people in that,
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Wilk Wilkinson
there's no delineation between illegal immigration and,
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Wilk Wilkinson
and, and legal immigration. Yeah. And things like that. And then trying to conflate those two and then put them in the same bucket and then say that all immigration is bad.
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Wilk Wilkinson
That's, that is a whole, that's just a nasty cycle of events that that promotes that fear, outrage and grievance that I often talk about, and people capitalize on that. But just you and I sitting here right now, Neil, has it been your life experience that quite often people seem afraid of you as an immigrant or look at you as somebody who I mean, because you're quite clearly somebody who is who has come here as a younger adult but has done incredible things,
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Wilk Wilkinson
looking at your history and the way that you've, you've made,
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Wilk Wilkinson
just made huge,
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Wilk Wilkinson
accomplishments, whether it be in the world of business or in your, in your
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Wilk Wilkinson
ventures in the nonprofit world and the people that you've been able to to reach out to and connect with and, and and the things that you've been able to do, what is your experience been as, as far as people do you do you feel? No. Unfortunately, I heard you say that somebody through exit you at one time,
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Wilk Wilkinson
I had eggs thrown at me, but probably for different reasons.
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Wilk Wilkinson
But,
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Wilk Wilkinson
the reality is this is do you think that that is is indicative of how a lot of people see,
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Wilk Wilkinson
legal immigrants, especially ones t
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